"If you're someone who considers themselves my friend or someone I talk to regularly, and you didn't give me a gift on my birthday, I would appreciate it if you kept your distance. I don't understand how you can claim to care about me but show no concern for something that brings me joy and happens just once a year. Please respect my space, and if you haven't seen my posts, I don't want to hear comments like, 'I haven't heard from you or seen